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What is abuse and neglect?

What is abuse and neglect?

Child abuse is when anyone under 18 is being harmed or isn't being looked after properly. Sometimes a young person can be abused by a stranger or by another young person, but usually they know the person who is hurting them or making them do things that they should not. They can be abused anywhere; at home, at school, a local sport centre or after school club. Sometimes someone else knows what is happening, but they don't stop it. This is wrong too.

Remember, it is never your choice and never your fault for being abused. Child abuse is never right.

There are four main types of abuse:

  • physical;
  • sexual;
  • emotional;
  • and neglect.


If you are worried about abuse, or that someone you know might be being abused, you can:

  • talk to your teacher, your parents or carers, your local doctor or nurse;
  • call Childline on 0800 1111. All calls are free and confidential;
  • call the Early Help and Safeguarding Hub here in the East Riding on 01482 395500 or the Emergency Duty Team (out of hours) (01377) 241273;

  • Remember - if you are in immediate danger, you should call the police on 999.

Physical abuse


Physical abuse is when someone hurts a child or young person on purpose. There are many forms of physical abuse.

The most common forms include:

  • hitting;
  • punching;
  • shaking;
  • throwing;
  • poisoning;
  • burning;
  • scalding;
  • drowning;
  • suffocating;
  • making a child ill.

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Sexual abuse


Sexual abuse is when someone under the age of 16 is told, asked or forced to take part in sexual activities. It does not matter if they know what is happening, or not. There are different ways in which a young person can be sexually abused.

Some examples are:

  • having someone touch their private parts;
  • making them touch someone else's private parts;
  • involving them in the making of films, videos or DVDs or taking photos and videos on mobile phones that involve sexual activity;
  • making them watch sexual behaviour;
  • making them do sexual things either to themselves or with other people.

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Emotional abuse


Emotional abuse happens in many different ways. It can affect how a young person or child sees themselves; how they feel they fit in with their friends, schoolmates and where they live.

Examples of emotional abuse are:

  • being constantly told they are wrong or not good enough;
  • being unfairly blamed for everything all the time;
  • told that they are stupid;
  • made to feel unhappy;
  • being called nasty names;
  • being told they should never have been born;
  • being told to do tasks they are not old enough or can not really do;
  • seeing or hearing someone from home being hurt by another member of the family (domestic violence);
  • being bullied;
  • being made to feel frightened or in danger;
  • being over protected, like not being allowed to ever play or go out.

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Neglect


Neglect is when a child or young person is not being looked after properly and his/her very basic needs are not met. This could result in their health or growth being damaged.

These very basic needs include:

  • food;
  • shelter (a safe place to stay/roof over your head);
  • safety in the home;
  • not being left alone in dangerous situations;
  • proper clothing;
  • good cleanliness (being allowed to wash/bath often enough);
  • being kept warm;
  • more help for vulnerable children;
  • medical treatment if necessary;
  • protection from physical and emotional harm or danger.

If you, or someone you know is being abused then you can tell someone who can help.


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